Our intention is to reach 1 billion people with the message and experience of self love - to make self love so accessible, embraced and taught that within 3 generations we can create a world in which all children are born connected to love and stay connected to love for their entire lives. We believe this would change the world, end war, and create a world in which we truly could love each other as we love ourselves, the way it is meant to be.
We can't do this alone. We each have a part to play, YOU have a part to play. Which is why I am sharing this body of self love work and training with others such as yourself so you can even more powerfully & visibly guide those you serve (because not only do you have the tools and teachings, you more deeply have and practice self-love within yourself.)
In the past 10 years, as a global self-love movement we have:
  • Founded the international day of Self Love on Feb 13th (creating a beacon of self-love awareness during a month formerly all about romantic love from another)
  • Sponsored and held over 2000 self-love events + circles in 41 countries
  • Brought self-love programs to women's prisons, inner city charter schools, non-profits such as Girls Inc, sororities, high schools and more.
  • Helped to change the hashtag #selflove to one that reflects what self-love really is (two years ago it was all about sexual acts)
  • Submitted papers of research to psychological journals and texts who currently define self-love as narcissism.
  • Created and validated assessments that measure the strength + weakness of self-love 
Together, we can elevate the consciousness of this planet through the power of self-love, and it starts one heart at a time.
First with yours. Then with every being you touch. 


About Christine Arylo & the International Self Love Movement

SHARE THE LOVE?  Help us find those meant to be part of this movement. Thank you!

The Path of Self Love Training gives you tangible, proven and powerful "self-love technology" for assessing, teaching, coaching, & guiding others how to practice self-love, from the transformational teacher and three-time best-selling author, and founder of The Path of Self Love School. 

"It's one thing to talk about self-love or share tips, but how do you practically and powerfully guide someone to love themselves? What are the steps? Where do you start? How do you focus? It can feel so vast & esoteric. Be kind to yourself. Forgive yourself.  Yes, that's all true, but people need a path to follow, to see where they are weak and strong, to see how they are progressing, to choose love over criticism, stress, fear shame, & sabotage in their daily actions and life decisions... and tools that are powerful and fun that inspire them to do the inner work, at any age, social background or spiritual upbringing. 

Whether you are a coach, a therapist, a counselor, facilitator, social worker, teacher, yogini, mother, manager, artist, or desire to serve others in any way, or you just want to deepen your own self-love, if you believe in the power of self-love and want the mastery, tools & skills to teach and guide others individually, in groups, of any age, you are in the right place!

For the past decade I've dedicated my life to researching, experimenting with and working with over 35,000 people specifically on self-love.  I discovered a lot including that:

  • "Do I love myself?" is not a yes/no question. 
  • Self-love is not just about self-care, and it's not just about self-esteem. 
  • Negative self-talk starts as young as 6 in girls, and most adult women suffer from it (no matter how successful they appear on the outside.) 
  • Self-love is a practice + a path + a choice - there are real, tangible ways to assess it, teach it and prescribe it 
Throughout this training, you'll receive The Path of Self Love" Technology" including all the techniques, tools, processes and skills one uses to guide, coach, assess, teach, and prescribe self-love to individuals or groups in practical, tangible, potent (and fun!) ways that empower people to make self-loving choices in their relationships, careers, health, well-being, money, and really everything in their lives. 

We've tested this technology with over 35,000 people across age, race, and socio-economic background. And what we've found is that because of its simplicity, tangibility and playfulness, the work gets to the ROOTS vs. just trying to treat the symptoms... so people can have profound internal shifts that empower them to make different choices. There are so many results we've witnessed as a result of this work.

The Path of Self Love Training & Certificate Program is a 4-part program based on the proven, powerful & fun "self love technology" created for those who desire to Guide, Teach & Prescribe Self Love More Powerfully & Practically to those they serve, and as a result, grow their sacred work in the world and make an impact in ways that matter most to them.  



Personal assessments

Transformational processes

Daily practices 

Interactive adventures

Coaching inquiries

Proven structures

Workshop and circle outlines

Language and context

One of the hardest places for a person to stay committed to self-love is in relationship. And it’s often a difficult relationship that brings people to their self-love path, so having tools here is essential. Using the proven technology of Choosing Me Before WE – both the book + the 40-day practice – which includes some of the deepest and most profound self-love teachings that have never been published in a book, including the Love Cracks and the Love Rings, you will gain more mastery & tools to:

#3. SELF LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS: Cultivating Sovereignty, Healing Love Cracks, Re-Opening the Heart to Trust Love & Creating Loving, Respectful Relationships that Support You to Thrive

  • Articulate the link between self-love and love in relationship 
  • Assess and give guidance around the biggest misunderstandings about love 
  • Teach and guide people to identify & heal their Love Cracks – and how to link these cracks to the sabotaging choices they make in relationships so they can become empowered to make loving choices
  • Learn the signs of love starvation & isolation and how to guide a person to get the love they need in healthy ways 
  • Guide people how to discern who to be vulnerable and intimate with and who not to - using the 5 Love Rings
  • Gain a deeper understanding of “sovereignty”– what it is, how to cultivate it and how to teach it
  • Receive ‘sovereignty’ rituals you can use to lead others to create and take self-love vows 

After a decade of teaching + testing this work with people of many ages and backgrounds, we offer this training to give others the self-love technology to weave into their work in the world, and deepen your own mastery of choosing self-love.  

You don't have to be teaching or guiding others now to apply, you just need the desire to deepen your self love mastery and to share the medicine and message of self-love in your way.  Here's who the Path of Self Love is designed for... see if any of these sound like you: 

  • Already work with people in the realm of self-love and you want to become masterful and expand your toolkit with processes and tools already proven and tested to work. 
  • Help others with the challenges they face or desires they have - in their relationships, money, career, body, health, business, burnout, depression, eating disorders, stress, studies, etc. While they may not come to you for self-love, you know what is at the root is a lack of self-love.
  • Would love to weave self-love into the teachings or modalities you already use in your practice, workshops or retreats in powerful, accessible & fun ways. 
  • Would love to bring self-love to communities & organizationsyou work in, serve & care about.
  • Would like more proven, practical and powerful tools you can use to confidently, clearly and specifically guide others in self-love and use yourself -such as assessments, exercises, daily practices, visualizations, processes that are both powerful, inspiring, playful and potent.
  • Desire to deepen your self-love for yourself so you can embody the language & tools and talk about it with your beloveds - children, family, community, clients - in ways that they can understand and receive it.


The next training starts on September 26th, 2017

You can register for just the next module:  
 "Reforming Our Inner Mean Girls 

and Empowering Our Inner Wisdom"
 or the full Path of Self Love training. 

Read below for details + program specifics... 

Based on the world-recognized "Inner Mean Girl Reform School" process co-created by Christine Arylo
& Amy Ahlers that has helped over 30,000 people.

Reforming Our Inner Mean Girls and Empowering Our Inner Wisdom

 Starts September 26th, 2017

This is the only time this module will be offered until Fall 2018. So if you are considering, join now! 



Your registration includes:
  • 13 weeks of training with Christine Arylo, with weekly sessions you attend via video or audio
  • Live teaching calls with Christine directly teaching + transmitting to you
  • Small peer to peer group circles for deepening with the work led by a Self Love Guide 
  • Large group circles for deepening the teachings with Christine 
  • Permission to use the teachings, assessments, processes, and tools in your work 
  • Access to private online site with all videos, audios, handouts, and transcripts
  • 1:1 Personal Mentoring + Completion session with a Self Love Guide - additional sessions available if you desire 
  • Certificate of Completion of the Path of Self Love Training on Reforming Our Inner Mean Girls and Empowering Our Inner Wisdom (upon completion of requirements)
  • Templates, worksheets, and assessments you can use with 1:1 sessions, workshops, circles, retreats, programs - professionally designed so you and the material shine! (received upon completion of Certificate requirements) 
  • Outlines and Worksheets for workshops and circles you can start doing right away in your communities (received post Certificate requirements). 


Additional Personal 1:1 Mentoring + 
Powerful Masterminding 
We want to make sure that you have the support team YOU need, and mentorship and masterminds are two of the most powerful ways to super power your inner self + your sacred work out in the world.  You'll be part of the inner circle and will receive:
  • A Personal Self Love Guide Mentor for the full program, receiving 2 mentorship sessions for each of the 3 main modules – you will be matched with one of the certified Self Love Guides who I've personally mentored, to be your personal mentor for the entire year. In addition to the 1:1 session you receive at the end of each module, you will receive 3 additional 1:1 sessions, one per module, for a total of 6 mentorship sessions. (value $399)
  • Private monthly “Femmamind” (mastermind) with others who have committed to the Full Path of Self-Love -  to support you to embody the work + bring it more into the world in your unique way, receiving heart storming, witnessing, insight, reflection and sisterhood with others walking a similar path. This will be led by a Self Love Guide so there will be structure + support.  You'll be together for the entire year, so that you can really support each other to go into the world in more empowered, expressed ways. 


We'd Love to Support You in Growing Your Sacred Work + Powerful Presence in this World 

We are personally talking with all of those interested so we can make sure the program is a good fit.The next steps are to complete the application, which will help you get clear on what you desire from the training too.  And then we'll reach out to set up a 1:1 conversation.  

Investment: Monthly installments as low as $292/month or $3600/one-pay
(we will send you complete payment plan options before our interview)




Click here to apply for the Full Path of Self Love + then we'll schedule a time to talk
  • Create the lives their hearts and souls desire even it if goes against conventional wisdom or means making a big shift - because they  stop settling in relationships, careers and money and they gain the courage to start going for their dreams.
  • Transform sabotaging choices in relationships, money, food, health & career in ways they never could before  - teach women or girls how to motivate herself with self compassion, care and acceptance instead of shame, judgment, criticism, guilt, obligation or comparison, and become empowered to make self-loving choices that stick and support her to get what she needs and live her best life.   
  •  Gain the courage to transform or even end unsupportive relationships  - romantic, friendship, family + community  - and create an abundance of loving, respectful relationships that support them to thrive.
  • Have major breakthroughs in self-care that stick. Provide simple but mighty tools that transform the patterns of burnout, exhaustion and self-sacrifice because finally they can deeply commit to  care for themselves like a best friend using simple practices to stay on track. 
  • Turn down the negative self-talk and turn up the volume on the  supportive self-loving inner wisdom. 
  • Develop deep levels of self trust + self empowerment so they can follow their own inner wisdom and make the best choices even in the face of doubt, fear, worry, self pressure or peer pressure this alone can change a woman or girl's life forever. 
  • Uncover how they give their power away + teach them how to take their power back in relationships, work, money + health, so they show up in their fullest and most true expression, without holding back.


Our mission to serve 1 Billion people the medicine of self-love so that within 3 generations this world can be one in which all children are born connected to  love & have the wisdom & tools to stay connected to love their whole life. 

We invite you to join us in that mission. We'd love to help make the medicine YOU serve stronger and potent to reach more people more powerfully. 

About the International Movement of Self Love
More than just another training or certificate, you are invited to be part of making a difference in the lives of women and children around the world, through the medicine + power of self-love.

Founded by Christine Arylo. Fueled by Love Ambassadors globally.

1. Complete the application
2. We'll reach out to set up a time to talk
3. Decide if this is a good fit for you now
4. Training starts September 26, 2017 - enrollment closes Sept 18th.

People tell us that just filling out the application provides such clarity for them.

What other transformational teachers say about the self-love technology
Christine Arylo teaches and offers 

There's much work out there about how to navigate the inner dialogue, but I've witnessed thousands of lives transformed as a result of the processes Christine Arylo has created.
- Shiloh Sophia McCloud, founder of the Intentional Creativity Movement + Color of Woman School

"Christine Arylo has created an 'illuminated path of self-love' that shows you exactly how to love yourself"
- SARK, artist, teacher, best-selling author of 13 books including Succulent Wild Woman  

"Christine Arylo makes loving yourself not only possible, but fun."
Marci Shimoff - NY Times best-selling author, Happy for No Reason and Chicken Soup for the Woman's Soul

Join Us for our Fall 2017 Session - Register for REFORMING OUR INNER MEAN GIRLS AND EMPOWERING OUR INNER WISDOM - click hereApply for the full Path of Self-Love Training + Program - click here

We start our next Training on September 26th, 2017. If you are ready to make a bigger difference in the lives of women, girls and those you serve, or just the ones you love in your everyday life, including yourself  then JOIN US. We'd love to add Self Love Super Power to your sacred work!  

Questions? Reach out to Lea Guthrie, Program Director at Lea@PathofSelfLove.org

You can receive the training in two ways: 

1.  Take One, Two, Three or Four Modules (mix and match) 
signing up one module at a time - our fall session starts September 26,  2017 focused on transforming the Inner Mean Girl + Empowering our Inner Wisdom - with girls and women. Each module is only taught one time per year. You receive a Certificate for each module completed with access to and permission to use our assessments, workshop flows, tools, worksheets and more.


2. Take the full Path of Self Love Training -
take all four main modules in order + receive additional support, mentorship,
and training + be eligible for Self Love Guide Certification. As a Self Love School we support our full Path of Self Love Guides to grow their work and presence within a community. And bring you into the school to share your special talents and gifts to the thousands of people we serve.

A letter from Christine Arylo, founder of the Path of Self Love School (served over 35,000 people), best selling author (3 self love books), creator of Self Love Day (a social movement that touches over 1 Milllion people every year), MBA and internationally recognized transformational teacher and leader

If you feel called to serve people the medicine of self-love more powerfully and in ways that the people you serve, care for, guide, teach can access, in ways that are both powerful and playful... then this training was created for you.  Read the full invitation below + register or reach our program director Lea at Lea@PathofSelfLove.org to have a conversation and learn more.  We look forward to connecting with you and learning more about you. 

Stop self-bullying & negative self-talk.
 Strengthen self-compassion, self-trust, self-empowerment & intuition.
 Give women & girls the power to discern between their two inner forces - their "Inner Mean Girl" & their "Inner Wisdom" so they can stop making sabotaging choices in work, relationships, money and health & start making supportive self-loving choices that honor who they are & what they need.

Based on internationally acclaimed Reform Your Inner Mean Girl technology that has helped thousands of women & girls work with the two inner forces within - the 'inner mean girl' + 'the inner wisdom' -  you’ll become more skillful at guiding others to access, understand and create a relationship with these parts of themselves. Armed with a language that spans all ages + backgrounds and opens up the space for girls and women to express and know themselves more deeply, you'll receive 'super power tools' for transforming negative self-talk, stopping self sabotaging patterns and tapping into their inner wisdom.

You'll be able to teach, coach, guide and lead others - individually and in groups - to make better choices in relationships, career, health, money, and more, transform negative thinking, motivate themselves through compassion vs. criticism, trust themselves more, connect to their inner wisdom, and love the parts of themselves that are hardest to love.  
People say the playfulness + simplicity of the approach PLUS the focus specifically on how this shows up in women and girls, takes them into deeper self-awareness & transformation than years of therapy – it cuts straight to the heart & gives people an entirely new language and understanding. 

Details on Enrollment for "Reforming Our Inner Mean Girls and Empowering Our Inner Wisdom"  Training + Certificate Program Below


We'll give you tools & processes you can use right away. People from coaches to therapists, to teachers and social workers, to financial planners and yoga teachers, to non-profit organizations, to mothers and more have used these tools in their work, and for themselves.

You'll be able to talk about 'self love' without even using the words. Sometimes people will come to you looking for self-love, but often it's their business, relationship, health, money, weight, or stress that lead them to you. This technology will give you insight, wisdom, presence and "simple but mighty" tools and practices that we've proven work for all kinds of ages + people. 

(based on inner critic technology developed specifically for women & girls) You'll gain mastery at working with the two inner forces - the Inner Mean Girl and the Inner Wisdom, teach others to create strong self-trust and self-empowerment so they make the most powerful, aligned choices, and learn to liberate others and yourself from negative self-talk and toxic habits like comparison, blame, perfectionism, overgiving and more. 

February-May: SELF LOVE FOUNDATIONS: CULTIVATING A STRONG SELF-LOVE FOUNDATION Assess, prescribe &  guide others on their self love path based on where and how their foundation is strong and weak, based on the 10 branches of Self-Love - from self acceptance to self-care to self-expression and self-worth. Gain mastery at talking about the different kinds of self-love and prescribing daily practices, exercises, meditations and more in your 1:1 work and in groups, circles, workshops, retreats, teams. Learn methodology and tools for guiding others to stay true to themselves, and create lives aligned with their heart & soul.

Cultivate Sovereignty, Heal Love Cracks, Open the Heart  & Create Loving, Respectful Relationships that Support You 

In Person Retreat - Spring 2018 - HEART ART  ACCESSING, HEALING & FREEING THE HEART THROUGH THE POWER OF ART - learn processes that combine self love and creativity that can be used in workshops, retreats and circles instantly that people of all ages love and that create an opening for doing deeper work with you. 


What you'll find below is more on the Path of Self Love Training and who it's for + specifics on our next class, "Reforming Our Inner Mean Girls and Empowering Our Inner Wisdom" + specifics on taking the Full Path of Self Love Training which makes you eligible for Self Love Guide Certification. 

We would love to connect to talk with you, learn more about you and answer any questions. Contact our team at love@pathofselflove.org.






PLUS you can weave all of this into the work you are already doing, or desiring to do, with others.  For example:

  • Leading individuals through 3-6 month transformational experiences that are unique to what they need, with focused intentions, so they aren't just showing up for another class or session. You'll have a 'path' you walk together that makes it easier to see and feel the progress, and focus in the most potent places.
  • Weaving self-love into your specific work even if you never use the words 'self love' - you'll have tools you can modify to make self-love accessible and your work more powerful.
  • Leading groups - in-person circles, classes, workshops, retreats - for women, girls, teens or co-ed - as one time workshops, on-going circles, 4-6-week programs and more. You can use the outlines we've developed or weave it into your own classes and teachings.


Reforming Our Inner Mean Girls and Empowering Our Inner Wisdom

Learn to turn negative self-talk + self-sacrificing habits
into self-compassionate, self-empowering action



The full Path of Self Love Training includes all 4 modules which together constitute a complete body of self-love technology and gives you the tools, processes, language, and structure to create transformational paths, programs, workshops, and circles 
for individuals or groups.

We know that the full path won't be for everyone, which is why we have created the training in a module format. And... for those that DO KNOW that self love is foundational to their work, we want to be here to support you, lift you up, elevate you, give you everything we can to help you be successful in your journey... so you can start seeing the shifts inside yourself + the people you serve right away.    

Below are descriptions on the other 3 technologies you'll be trained in 
PLUS details on the extra support and training 
provided just for full Path of Self Love Guide students.

Details on Full Path of Self Love Enrollment Below

PLUS You'll Receive Additional Support, Mentoring, Community + Training  for full Path of Self Love Students Only

You will receive everything included in each module - the tools, technology, teachings, assessments, online community,  AND we'll support you personally & professionally with  additional mentoring + masterminding + trainings (valued at $2100, included in your full Path of Self Love program) including:

Access to Special Trainings to Support You Both Personally and Professionally

Those who practice what they teach are the most powerful + magnetic guides, because people can FEEL the wisdom and teachings in you. Those who expand their skills to hold space for others, and expand their capacity to receive, can serve more people in ways that sustain instead of drain you. When your work includes helping others, it's essential you set yourself up to do it in ways that support not sacrifice you.   

You'll receive access to 4 super-powered trainings you can do from home that will support you to make your work more powerful + help ensure what you give and receive are in balance, including:

  • Year End Power Pause Reflection Ritual (Dec) – reflect on your personal + professional accomplishment so you feel good about what you did in 2017 + and are clear and restored to begin the new year. (value $200)  

  • 2018 VISIONING - Vision Your Sacred Work and Life for 2018  the Feminine Way (Jan) – a powerful 4-stage visioning journey you'll take with Christine and the other full path of self love guides to set yourself up for a year that focuses on what matters and supports you (value $288)

  • Leading Powerful Circles (Feb) - receive training on how to more powerfully hold circles that create connection + transformation, including special self love circle outlines you can use for your self love events in February. (value $200)
  • Opening Your Heart to Receiving Money & Expanding Your Imprint Serving Self Love (Spring/Summer)  - when you do good work for others, often you can sacrifice your needs on the material plane. We've invited special guests who specialize in expanding the 'wealth quotients' to work with you, so you can receive more prosperity and reach more people. (value $200)

PLUS Eligibility to Be a Certified Self Love Guide through the Path of Self Love 

  • Listing + Referrals as a Certified Self Love Guide in your area of geography + expertise on the international movement of self-love website.
  • Listing + Promotion of your Self Love Day February in-person events on the Choose Self Love website + Social Media networks.
  • Co-Leading specialized workshops and programs with The Path of Self Love School - focused on your expertise, marketed through our global platform 
  • Advanced Training in Holding Circles and Creating Programs the feminine way
  • Opportunity to co-teach classes, staff workshops and guest blog and write 

PLUS Additional Access to Self Love Online Programs + Self Love Goodies

  • Love Club Membership  (value $450)
  • Access to the (3) 40 day self-love practices (value $290)
  • Signed Copies of Christine’s books for each session + the Self Love Necklace (value $65)
  • Discounts on self love books, necklaces, 40-day practices, love art, postcards, stickers for your events   



The Full Path of Self Love Program Includes:

The Full Suite of Self Love Technology

  • REFORMING OUR INNER MEAN GIRLS AND EMPOWERING OUR INNER WISDOM: Transforming Negative Self-Talk & Self-Sabotage Within Girls & Women, Guiding Them To Trust Their Inner Wisdom, Make Compassionate & Confident Choices, and Support vs Sacrifice Their Desires And Needs - Sept through Dec
  • SELF LOVE FOUNDATIONS:Cultivating a Strong Self Love Foundation -  February through May 
  • SELF LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS: Cultivating Sovereignty, Opening the Heart + Creating Loving, Respectful Relationships - July-September
  • HEART ART: Accessing, Healing & Freeing the Heart through the Power of ArtAttending the In-Person retreat has an additional reduced fee for full Path of Self Love students. Students who attend virtually receive two of the technologies to complete the same weekend.

 You Receive Support, Tools, Processes, and Assessments as part of each module

  • Live teaching calls with Christine directly teaching + transmitting to you
  • Mastermind for deepening with the work led by a Self Love Guide
  • Large group circles for deepening the teachings with Christine
  • Permission to use the teachings, assessments, processes, and tools in your work 
  • Professionally designed assessments, worksheets, handouts and templates you can use 
  • Access to private online site with all videos, audios, handouts, and transcripts
  • Outlines + worksheets for workshops and circles
  • Completion session with your Self Love Guide
  • Certificate of Completion of The Path of Self Love - all 4 technologies + full Path of Self Love 
  • Option to become a certified Self Love Guide 

PLUS all of the additional mentoring + training + masterminding + access valued at $2100. 


Details on Schedule, Dates + Flow - Click HereClick here to apply for the Full Path of Self Love + then we schedule a time to talk

"It's the best course to get the knowledge and skills to bring more self-love into your life and those around you."  

Andrea Kehrli, Teacher, Artist, Gossau Zurich, Switzerland

"An intelligent, fun, creative & hands-on spiritual journey where one can celebrate self exploration of love and true sisterhood"

Aglaée Jacob, MS, RD, author, Vancouver Island, BC, Canada

"The Path of Self Love has altered my life profoundly.  I have been given an incredible amount of support from Christine and her team, as well as from the other women who have chosen to invest in themselves in this way.  I have been given a rich vocabulary, practices, and a full toolkit of strategies and tips to step into the world and say, "Hello, World, I am here!" The Medicine of Self Love is REAL and is desperately needed now, more than ever.  I am learning so much about how to love me just as I am and how to sustainably shine that light of love upon others.  I am thrilled to be in this training to be a Self Love Guide!"

- Juliet Kapsis, Integrative Nutrition Health Coach, Wellness Coach, Conneticut

Tested to work across all ages + backgrounds - with girls as young as 6, from professional women to women in prison, in 1:1 sessions, group circles, half-day workshops and weekend retreats with powerful results.   

Over the course of 13-weeks, taught personally by Christine Arylo, supported through live (and recorded) teaching transmissions with Christine, small group & peer to peer practice, an online studio, & personal mentorship with a certified Self Love Guide, you will gain more mastery + skills to do things like:

ONE: REVEAL, FEEL, DEAL & HEAL THE INNER MEAN GIRL. Work with the inner critic in powerful, simple and fun ways that brings it to life so women + girls can work with it new ways and become empowered to change their thoughts, actions and feelings. You'll have language, tools, processes, and more to:

  • Assess what kind of Inner Critic a woman or girl has, so she can see how it is showing up and sabotaging her personal dreams, goals and well-being  (there are 13 inner critics specific to women and girls, including the Comparison Queen,  Worrywart, & Achievement Junkie).
  • Guide others to develop a relationship with their inner critic so they understand the motives behind the harsh inner voices and love their inner critic in a deeply personal and profound way -  they will become an observer instead of victim to it by learning what triggers her, what her fears are, and where she came from.
  • Bring the inner critic to life so it becomes a tangible force that can be transformed -  When this becomes a tangible, separate entity you can observe and talk to (and even laugh at)... big breakthroughs happen + women and girls become self-empowered to make better choices for themselves and feel more confident and good about themselves.
  • Teach and use tools to transform negative self-talk in minutes and transform confusion & criticism into calm & clarity.
  • Strengthen the inner tools of self-compassion + self acceptance for motivation instead of using pressure + judgment - prescribe simple daily practices and other tools  to choose gentleness over harshness, patience over pressure, and understanding over judgment. 


TWO: TRANSFORM SELF SABOTAGING HABITS INTO NEW SELF SUPPORTIVE WAYS OF LIVING, WORKING + BEINGYou'll receive the training to assess, coach & teach others how to transform toxic, self-sabotaging habits into self-supportive choices (there are 30 major toxic habits for girls and women).  When you can articulate a pattern or habit in a way people can see it in their daily lives, you can guide them to make different choices in real ways that stick. You'll learn the 4-steps a person goes through internally to shift behavior externally, and learn the root cause + most effective antidotes and daily practices you can prescribe to people for curing (or at least lessening) toxic habits such as:

Comparison * Perfectionism * Procrastination* Setting unrealistic expectations * Gossip * Isolating * Lashing Out*
 Body hate * Overworking, * Overgiving * Worrying * Future Tripping  


THREE:  STRENGTHEN THE CONNECTION + TRUST IN THE INNER WISDOM SO PEOPLE CAN ACCESS THEIR TRUTH + MAKE THE BEST CHOICES. The inner critic will never give up its job unless it believes this other inner force can handle the job. But when this wise inner force becomes strong, and girls and women begin to trust it - even when it goes against conventional wisdom or peer pressure - they begin making choices in their relationships, studies, careers, bodies, health, money and more that align with what they need and who they are. They empower themselves to follow their truth, no matter what. You'll gain more mastery, skill and tools to:  

  • Connect people to their inner wisdom by teaching them the different ways in which it 'speaks' through the body and emotions - and how that differs from the inner critic so they can tell when it's their inner wisdom speaking vs their fear.  
  • Teach and assess what type of intuition people are strongest and weakest in so they can develop more trust in their Inner Wisdom + gain empowerment to follow its guidance. 
  • Transform and clear fear when it shows up. Teach others how to quiet ther inner critic in 10 minutes or less so they can "hear" their inner wisdom over the voice of their inner critic.
  • Share practices and super power tools for developing a stronger connection to the Inner Wisdom on a daily and weekly basis. 

Attending the Inner Mean Girl Reform School weekend workshop changed my life forever. It was the catalyst for me going from an overworked perfectionist, with no time for romance, and a job that was killing me, to a woman who takes care of herself, faces her fears, loves her body in the shape it is and is creating a life aligned with who I really am, including quitting my job, taking a sabbatical and redefining who I am and how I want to serve through my work. My Inner Mean Girl still occasionally rears her ugly  head, but at a fraction of her former vileness. I know how to transform her negative talk into what it is I really need.  

Mary M., former government director, currently on global sabbatical. Reformed her Inner Mean Girls: The Perfectionist, The Rejection Queen, and The Comparison Queen. Also currently in Path of Self Love Training & Certificate Program. 

Revealing + Transforming My Inner Mean Girl Changed My Life 

At last I finally KNOW WHEN the B.S. of my Inner Mean Girl thoughts are coming up and I now have the tools to change in the moment and get back to my Inner Wisdom.  

I now have a structure, language and self-understanding that supports me to go after and live my highest calling and dreams, even when I am scared or uncertain!

Gayle M., corporate executive, certified coach, mother.  Reformed her Inner Mean Girls: The Worry Wart, The Rejection Queen, and The Doing Addict.

Self-Awareness & Honesty,
 Self-Acceptance, Self-Care,
 Self-Compassion & Forgiveness,
 Self-Expression, Self-Esteem,
 Self-Empowerment, Self-Pleasure,
 Self-Respect & Self-Honor, Self-Trust
 Plus the Roots of Self-Love... Self-Worth

The question is not “Do I love myself?” It’s not a Yes/No answer. There are ways we are each strong and weak in self-love. The key is identifying where one is weak and then providing support to grow those areas, while continuing to cultivate what is already strong. Most people teach generally about self-love, this training will give you more mastery & tools to assess, prescribe and guide individuals and groups specifically on whatever areas of self-love you choose to focus on.

  • Assess where people are strong & weak in self-love using two self-love assessments that have been tested and validated (use with individuals to help you focus your work together or use with groups to create more personal awareness and connection).
  • Articulate and explain what self-love is, what it isn’t and why it can be so hard. Most people know the self-love acts to take, they just can't give themselves permission to take action (you'll have language and context that frees people to choose love for themselves without feeling guilty). 
  • Understand and have language to articulate the difference between the 10 kinds of self-love - so you can help others expand their understanding of self-love, build on their self-love strengths, and focus their attention on their self love weaknesses (makes the journey so much less overwhelming and much more focused and tangible).
  • Prescribe processes, inquiries, adventures and daily practices based on what a person specifically needs (you'll have a full "self-love tool shed" with tools we know work). 
  • Use tools in sessions/workshops to deepen with individuals or within groups that are simple, powerful & fun, so you can touch the deep stuff, create the circumstances for breakthroughs to occur, but in ways that are accessible and inspiring... and yes, still potent. 
  • Lead meditations and visualizations based on the different kinds of self-love - which you can use in your circles, retreats, or individual work.
  • Design in-person coaching & transformational programs for groups or individuals that focus on specific needs and desires and that create a path for self-love, with practices people can use in their daily lives. For example, you can create a 3 month coaching program where each month you focus on one self love branch, OR a 6-week group circle where each week you focus on a branch and have the women or girls do the adventure together with "Me Moment Journaling" in between OR a half-day workshop that teaches the foundation of self-love and focuses on self-care, self-compassion and self-expression OR many other possibilities.  

 Based on the technology from the best-selling book, Madly in Love with ME, and the online self-love program - The Love Club - that has taught over 1200 people these tools, plus workshops and circles that have been held in over 41 countries with girls, women and men, you'll get language, practices, processes, and 'daring adventures of love' you can use to help others shift from the inside out... because they will have tangible ways to choose love for themselves based on where they need it most.  

#2. The 10 Branches of Self Love: Assess, Prescribe & Teach How to Cultivate a Strong Self Love in Tangible, Simple, Powerful & Fun Ways

What Women Who Experienced the Work Say.... And what your beloveds will say after having 'super power tools' to guide & support them

What Women Who  Have Taken this Module of the  Path of Self Love Training Say - about how this training empowered both their sacred work + their inner self-love work 

I am so much stronger at guiding others to work with their Inner Critic & Inner Wisdom + so much more self-aware of my own toxic habits - I am consciously making shift happen. For my Sacred Work: "Inner critics have been one of the most common topics that I help my clients with. This first module helped me deepen my relationship with my Inner Wisdom so I am so much stronger guiding others to work with their two inner forces.  It's an ongoing process to continue cultivating my self-trust and now I have access to a system that works.  For My Self-Love: "I have become much more aware of my Inner Mean Girl triggers, and I now more deeply understand the reasons behind my toxic habits. I am now consciously shifting my toxic habits with daily love mantras and the other tools and it's working!"

-Jen Yang, Taiwan, Coach and Consultant working with high-achieving, professional women trying to juggle it all 

PLUS - Special Teaching Sessions with Expert Faculty including:

ONE: "How Girls Learn" -  Creating Experiences that Girls Love using play, theatre and creativity 

TWO: "Transforming Body Hate into Body Love" -  Guiding Girls to Love Their Bodies 
THREE: "The Female Brain + Mindfulness " How the brain works and how we can teach our girls mindfulness practices that help them tap into their inner wisdom. 

FOUR:  Creating Safe Spaces for Courageous Conversations  - How to set up an environment that gets girls talking to and with each other. 
We've invited some pretty spectacular guest expert teachers to share their wisdom and techniques in these areas that we find can really super power the experiences you create and the guidance you give.  These will be offered as live classes and also recorded. 

PLUS - A Special Group Wisdom Council Session each month to share experiences, get feedback and learn from others what they are doing that's working with the girls the love, guide and serve. From mothers to advisors to anyone who is holding space for girls... it takes a village to raise a child. Let's raise girls who know how to love themselves and trust themselves, together.

Watch the Video with Christine Arylo about the Teaching the Girls part of the training

Register today,  5-Pay of $299/month or full payment of $1390

Upon making your initial payment, you'll receive registration confirmation from us + a personal reach out + the next steps to prepare for our powerful (and fun) adventure together this September through December.

To Register for this Module Only - Click Here OR keep reading to learn more about the Full Path of Self Love Training

for Reforming Our Inner Mean Girls and Empowering Our Inner Wisdom


Reach out to Lea Guthrie our program director at Lea@PathofSelfLove.org 

"My experience in this training has blown me away.  My spiritual vocabulary has increased. I believe that if we cannot language a thing than we are not fully equipped to transform it. I am so much more informed and able to share this wisdom with others.”

Linda Davenport, working with domestic violence survivors in Chicago 

I can see the women and girls I work with blossom and begin to make better choices and move confidently through their life decisions + I feel more confident in myself as a woman. For my Sacred Work: The Path of Self Love technology helps to remind my clients that they have wisdom and truth inside of them. I use this technology with my clients in so many ways. Sometimes I use it subtly by interjecting bits when they feel stuck during a  session. Sometimes I use the technology as a stand alone to get into some deep work and we'll also get playful and complete a Love Mantra. It means so much to them to refocus their fears, anxiety and a sense that they cannot choose their own direction. . For My Self Love: I now have a framework to understand and work with the parts of myself that I learned to hate. I can tune in and refocus in minutes. 

-Chanel Bayless, Ohio, Advocate and Advisor for women and mothers with special needs children 

"I really am enjoying this program. It's the best investment in both myself and my career that I've ever made.  
I'm honored to be a part of the Path of Self Love. I feel like I am part of a real community."

Tuition: $299/month

for 5 months 

This program is so powerfully transformative! I have personally achieved some very powerful changes utilizing the tools in this module. It has ignited a fire in me to use them, be them, exude them from the inside out and hopefully that will radiate for others to see. I feel like I could have reduced massive amounts of my own personal suffering had I personally been armed with this information. And now it's deepening the way I work with my clients

Andrea Goode, Nebraska, personal trainer + self-empowerment advisor 

"This program has really helped me to break down self love and be able to apply each branch to my life and realise which areas need more nourishment and attention. I love diving deeper into self-love and it helped me articulate self love is different ways to the people I work with - teens, moms, women and men.  

Kali Bell, New Zealand, EFT Practitioner, Former Grade School Teacher  

The power of creating love art to express & heal the heart is phenomenal. Often what you could spend hours or years talking about - and never healing or getting to the root - can be reached faster & more deeply by simple creative processes even a 7 year old can do.  Through color, symbol, metaphor and some really fun and simple but potent "LOVE ART" processes, you will gain the super power to open up the hearts, minds and lives of the women, girls and brave men you serve without you having to do all the heavy lifting. The process of creativity does the work for you. 

Attending this retreat gives you access to 4 Heart Art techniques you can use as stand alone workshops or together to create a weekend retreat, or in your circles or 1:1 sessions. They can be used with any age, and have been tested by us to create processes that are easy, accessible and that people love doing.  The in-person retreat includes receiving the technology to lead others to create:

  • Love Jeans
  • Self Love Affirmation & Mantra Cards
  • ME Prints - for expressing your essence more powerfully
  • Sacred Dream Seed Altars 

#4. HEART ART - Accessing, Healing & Freeing the Heart Through the Power of Art special in-person Self Love Retreat + Certificate. Spring 2018  

This retreat is also a way to strengthen your ability to hold circles and workshops by experiencing the master circle holding of Christine Arylo and the other Self Love Guides.

For this training we will gather in person in Northern California, Sonoma Wine Country.  For those that attend in person, you'll have special time with other Path of Self Love students heart to heart. This training can also be taken as a stand alone module.  

For those in the full Path of Self Love Training, the training who cannot attend live, you will receive two of the technologies - Me Prints and Self Love Affirmation cards to complete the same weekend. The process will be recorded and you'll be invited to be part of the opening circle of the weekend. 

Make a bigger difference by learning how to more masterfully guide others to love themselves
in practical, powerful + fun ways.

Next training starts Sept 26th 
with the Reforming Inner Mean Girls & Empowering Our Inner Wisdom Module:
 Transforming Negative Self-Talk & Self-Sabotage Within Girls & Women, Guiding Them To Trust Their Inner Wisdom, Make Compassionate & Confident Choices, and Support vs Sacrifice Their Desires And Needs.  Read below about joining for just the fall session or for the full training. 

PLUS - NEW THIS YEAR !  TEACHING  GIRLS to transform the negative self-talk and self-doubt and to trust their inner wisdom, no matter what 

Receive a special teaching track for those who desire to work with girls - personally for the girls you love and care for, professionally or as a volunteer, including:

  • Tools for working specifically with girls to identify and work with their Inner Mean Girl
  • Tools for transforming self sabotaging habits like comparison, body hate, perfectionism, lashing out, worry
  • Tools for strengthening their Inner Wisdom 
  • Workshop and class outlines for middle school and high school aged girls.